It's important to realize that one does not dictate the other.

He needs leadership training, because he's being a bad leader, because in a society with gender diversity and sexual diversity (Applause) and racial and ethnic diversity, you make those kind of comments, you're failing at your leadership.

I've awesome news for you. It actually works the opposite way.

It's all about gender.

That's a really, really debilitating idea.

That's pretty direct. So why do we do it?

The reason why I started doing that show, and the reason why people always assume I'm gay has nothing to do with sexuality.

I think that we shame people about their sexuality because we're afraid of our own sexuality.

It's just because the night before their parents got divorced, or the person is dealing with anxiety, an eating disorder, their sexuality, or maybe you just happened to experience that person have one bad moment out of a really good day.

But the funniest thing about all of this is that none of it really has anything to do with sexuality.

So if you look at the statistics, youth between the ages of 21 and 25 are 8 times more likely to commit suicide if they feel marginalized because of their sexuality.

That takes away your autonomous control over your sexuality and anybody who wants to take control over your sexuality does not have your best interest at heart.

So my boyfriend and I this morning we're trying to come up with a way to illustrate the depth and breadth of human sexuality without scaring you with photos which are scary even to me.

I think it's really simple, nobody actually knows why we shame people about their sexuality, if you take the church out, which I'm trying to do.

When we give people back autonomous control over their sexuality and say, you are allowed to define your sexuality however you want, you go do it, we give ourselves that same right.